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Are You An Eeyore?

Thursday, December 30th, 2010

This week, I replayed Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams again. This might be the fourth time I’ve watched it now, but the message is one that requires constant reinforcement–at least for me.

For those of you who are unaware of this video, Dr. Randy Pausch, a professor at Carnegie Mellon University, gave a “Last Lecture.” It became a YouTube sensation, and before he died, Dr. Pausch was interviewed and did a book. (He was diagnosed with terminal cancer and gave this lecture not that long after getting the news. He doesn’t talk much about his cancer, so it’s not a downer.)

There are a couple of pieces of his lecture that completely resonate for me. The first is that it’s up to each one of us whether we’re going to be a Tigger or an Eeyore. That we can’t change the hand we’re dealt in life, we can only change how we play it.

I admit it, I tend to be more on the Eeyore side of things. It’s not that I want to be, but I head that direction before I realize it. Every time I play this video, it reminds me to try harder.

The other message I really love is the idea that we shouldn’t give up just because things get tough. “The brick walls are there for a reason. They’re there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They’re there to stop the other people.” I might not have the quote exactly right, but this is close.

Too many writers give up too easily or are unwilling to do the work it takes to become strong writers and storytellers (It takes both skills). I think this reminder of the brick walls being there for a reason. If someone doesn’t want it badly enough to stick with it in the face of adversity, then they honestly don’t want it badly enough. Hanging in when it’s easier to give up? That’s worth a lot.

This whole lecture is worth watching. Some parts will undoubtedly resonate more with some people that with others, but I can’t imagine someone getting nothing out of the talk. I hope you agree.

Surprise, Surprise

Tuesday, December 28th, 2010

One of the best pieces I ever received from another author came shortly after I sold my first book. She told me that the writing process will change and that I should go with the flow rather than fight it. I’ve since learning just how correct she was. My writing process has changed, and over the course of the first four or five books, the shifts were drastic.

Mostly change is an evolution, not a revolution, and that’s what it’s like now, but that wasn’t the case in the beginning. And yet I still sometimes get things coming at me sideways.

Yesterday was one of those days. It started when I was revising the first scene in my hero’s point of view (POV). I thought he didn’t swear, at least not the harder language, but when I was writing the first draft, a few F words creeped in. I’ll catch those as I revise, I told myself, because that isn’t him. I haven’t heard him swear in any of the scenes I saw/heard with him and there were a lot of those. Only as I revised the first scene, I ended up with more of the F word, not less.

This brought on the epiphany–he’s much harder-edged than I believed.

It was disconcerting. I always know my characters so well, and this hero and heroine have been particularly enthusiastic about sharing with me. Where did this come from?

This gave me further epiphany–he’s a marshmallow around the heroine and rarely uses the harder swear words in front of her. Okay then. I had another hero (Wyatt from Eternal Nights) who didn’t use the F word in front of his heroine, but he was from the south and was raised not to swear in front of women. This hero doesn’t give me any sense of being southern at all, so where did this come from?

That wasn’t the end of my surprises. Later that evening, I clicked a link on Twitter, saw a picture of a woman, and immediately I knew she was one of my heroines. Just not a heroine I already know.

I’ve met my characters in a lot of ways over the years. I’ve had characters appear and tell me their names. I’ve had characters come in and give me information about their society or world by way of introduction. I’ve never before had a character pop in because I saw a picture. But hey, I talk with and eavesdrop on imaginary people–this didn’t faze me. But I did keep looking at her image off and on all evening and asking, “Who are you?”

I think I have the answer now. If she isn’t lying to me.

Did You Get One?

Sunday, December 26th, 2010

Did you get an ereader for Christmas? Did you check out my ebooks? Yes, this post is a plug for my stories. :-)

Available as an E-book only:

Demon Kissed from Silhouette Nocturne Bites

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Available as an E-book and in the Mammoth Collections (short stories):

Blood Feud

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The Troll Bridge (Jarved Nine)

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Available as an E-book and in Print (full-length novels)

In the Darkest Night (Light Warriors 4)

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Edge of Dawn (Light Warriors 3)

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In Twilight’s Shadow (Light Warriors 2)

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In the Midnight Hour (Light Warriors 1)

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And watch for Shadow’s Caress coming February 2011 from Harlequin Nocturne Bites and available everywhere ebooks are sold!

Merry Christmas!

Saturday, December 25th, 2010

This video was done by the Cottage Grove Fire Department and it’s awesome! Merry Christmas from me and the firefighters!

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Christmas Past

Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

On this eve before Christmas Eve, I thought it might be fun to share a few of my holiday memories. I don’t anticipate having a cohesive whole, but rather random things that stuck with me.

The first Christmas I have a solid memory of is the one when I was 5. I wanted a Barbie doll soooooo bad…and didn’t get one. I couldn’t believe Santa didn’t bring me the one thing I wanted more than anything in the world. I’m sure there were tears to go along with the disappointment. I got Barbie on my 6th birthday.

It was maybe a couple years later when an older neighborhood girl told me there was no such thing as Santa. I went straight to my mom and asked. Instead of telling me yes or no on Santa, my mom asked me what I thought. As soon as Mom asked the question, I knew the girl was right–Santa didn’t exist. Maybe I should have marked this as a spoiler.

Of course, I had a younger brother who still believed in Santa. I remember helping my mom and dad put out his presents from Santa and thinking it was pretty cool to be in on the adult secrets. That probably happened a year or two after the big reveal.

Some of my favorite memories involve the dogs, first Mush and then Kody. They always got presents, too, usually dog treats wrapped up. One year my parents gave my brother golf balls and the box was the same size and shape as the dog’s gift. Mush grabbed my brother’s present from under the tree and ran around with it because she thought it was hers.

Mush used to open her Christmas presents. She’d take the paper off, ripping just like a little kid. Kody wouldn’t take her own paper off. She made one of us do it for her.

I’m still dreaming of a green Christmas. I’ve never had one of those.

Merry Christmas and/or happy holidays! I wish each and every one of you a safe and joyous holiday season!

Adventures In Cable TV

Wednesday, December 22nd, 2010

Comcast cable went all digital in October which means cable-ready TV sets are no longer cable-ready. Now they require a small box about the size of an external DVD drive in order to pick up the digital cable signal. My parents have two televisions with these boxes, and when I was over Sunday night for dinner, my mom was complaining that the box in the family room wasn’t working. I went to investigate.

To be honest, I wasn’t expecting to find a problem. The more advanced the technology gets, the harder it is for my parents to adjust. I turned the TV on and then used the remote for the digital cable box to try to change stations. My mom was right. It didn’t work.

I immediately slipped into troubleshooting mode. Nothing seemed wrong with the remote. Now I needed to check out the digital box.

I couldn’t find it.

From the family room, I call to the kitchen, “Where’s the box?” No helpful answer, so I start looking around the television. Not on top. That’s where I put my digital box. Not below on the shelf of the entertainment center. I look to either side, but I don’t see anything.

Since the TV wouldn’t have a picture at all if the box wasn’t attached, I know it’s there. Somewhere. I get up to take a closer look. My search finally locates the digital box. It’s got clutter on top of it. It’s got clutter in front of it. It’s behind the wooden strip on the front of the entertainment center.

After clearing out all the stuff around the box and propping it up on the wood strip, the remote worked just fine.

Another crisis averted. Just add cable repair technician to my resume.

Language Precision

Sunday, December 19th, 2010

I have a ton of training to take at work over the next month. One of these classes was last Thursday and was filled with engineers. It was also taught by an engineer. The class was supposed to take an hour, but I looked around the room and thought, No way are we getting out of here that quickly. The only thing that might save me is the class went from 10am to 11 and a lot of engineers go to lunch at 11.

It didn’t take long for me to groan silently to myself. One of the first manual sections we reviewed contained the words: and/or. An engineer asked for clarification, and when he received it, began to argue that it should be and, not and/or.

One of the things that still amazes me is how many engineers demand exact precision in language and how literally they’ll take every word. Some don’t, but a lot do. And just try using the secondary definition of a word. Yeah, argument time for sure.

Nothing makes me crazier than when I’m talking to one of them and I say something like, “You should wear a red shirt on Fridays–” I don’t even get to finish that sentence before they’ll jump on the phrasing. You see they take should to be an order and don’t like that. Never mind that I’m not trying to give an order. I’m just saying that I heard wearing a red shirt on Fridays is a way to show support for the US troops, but they think I’m telling them they have to wear a red shirt. Sigh.

So there we are in training with an engineer arguing over and/or and other engineers jumped in to support him. The engineer leading the course took a note, deciding that his fellow brethren had a point–and/or wasn’t precise enough.

This is the way the entire class went, but that was about the only time anyone in that room participated. The instructor would ask a question and they’d all sit there. When you’re told up front that the entire class would circle back to one fact, wouldn’t you make a note of it? And when the question was asked, wouldn’t you give that answer? Apparently not if you’re an engineer. I, however, have a journalism degree. I did note it and when the rest of them sat there, I gave the correct answer. :-)

And yes, the class did run over, but only about 10 or 15 minutes. I feared it was going to be much worse.

Adventures Can Happen Anywhere

Friday, December 17th, 2010

Adventures can happen in the oddest places at the oddest times. Yesterday I had one when I least expected it.

I was supposed to go to SET training yesterday, but a half an hour before it started, I was told to go to Part 145 Mod 1 training instead. I know, the names don’t mean anything to you, but it helps keep them straight as I talk. SET training was 45 minutes, Part 145 Mod 1 is 4 hours.

This changes also required me to mentally shift my schedule for the day. Not my favorite thing because I’m not a real fan of spur of the moment anything. I like time to plan, and although this is far cry from say, hopping on a plane and flying to Singapore, it’s still a disruption to my mental organization and I don’t like this. I always end up feeling frazzled as my mind tries to adjust to the new plan.

The Part 145 Mod 1 training is in a training room above Hangar 4. This is an area of the building that I’m unfamiliar with because I never go over there. Keep in mind that lining the hallways are rooms to clean airplane parts, shops that fix parts, boxes with parts, and all the other equipment needed to fix airplanes. When I say the training room is over hangar 4, I mean it is directly over hangar 4, so I’m in the maintenance operation area.

I’ll skip all the training stuff, including the fact that I nearly got bumped out of the room, and get to my inadvertent adventure.

We get a break and I seek out a restroom. I went down the hallway by the training room, but there’s just more training rooms. I go down the stairs and to my left. I find the men’s room, but that doesn’t help me. Someone finally points me the other direction and tells me it’s down by the garage door (remember, I’m in the hangars area.)

I thought I missed it. I walked and walked and walked and there are multiple “garage doors” all over this place. I was thinking I was going to have to ask someone for help, when I finally spotted it. Whew! It’s actually a fairly large bathroom with those round fountain type sinks like you sometimes see in grade schools. I wash and dry my hands, put some lotion on, and leave to head back to class.

I stop short just outside the door. This doesn’t look right. Which way do I go?

I study the area, trying to figure out which way to turn. This really looks unfamiliar. In fact, it doesn’t even look like a hallway, it looks like a hangar. How can I come in from the hallway, and when I leave, it’s a hangar?

The light bulb goes on. There must be two doors!

I turn around and go back in the bathroom. Sure enough, there are two doors. I go out the other one, the one I would have known to use if I’d 1) been paying attention when I walked in. That side of the bathroom was much different than the opposite side. 2) wasn’t completely directionally challenged. 3) wasn’t already feeling a bit frazzled about being late getting back to class because of how far the restroom was from the training room.

This time I am in the hallway, but I still have to figure out which way to go. Yes, I am that directionally challenged and the other items in the previous paragraph apply here, too. I chose left. I had a 50/50 shot and I was right! Woot!

Of course, I still needed help finding my way back to the main hallway after class, but that’s another story.

Are You Tough Enough?

Tuesday, December 14th, 2010

The video below is the snow I’m having to deal with after more than 17″ were dumped on the Twin Cities over the weekend. I know I got more than 17 inches at my house, but this is the number they’re going with for official tallies. This makes it the 5th largest snow storm on record, BTW.

At first, I intended to narrate the video as I filmed, but decided all you’d hear is my teeth chattering if I tried to talk while I was outside. This morning, it was -13 degrees here and that’s air temperature, not wind chill. The high this afternoon was something like 9 degrees. I’m already tired of being cold and dealing with snow and this stuff will probably be around until the end of March. ::whimper::

Is it any wonder all my computer wallpapers are pictures of tropical islands?

Are you tough enough? Minnesota snow:


Organized Chaos

Sunday, December 12th, 2010

I’ve blogged before about being organizationally challenged. I like that phrase. :-) I’ve also mentioned some of the different programs I’ve downloaded to try and overcome my issues. It’s kind of, sort of, maybe helped, but it’s also created a different set of “opportunities,” to use corporate-speak. I ran into one of these last week.

One of the ways I’ve tried to organize my computer folders is to color code them. There are free programs available that allow people to swap out the plain manila folder icon with a bunch of other choices, including colored folders. I am all about color, the bolder and brighter the better. But it also seemed to me that if I color-coded my writing folders, it would make life easier. So I did.

I gave each project I’m working on it’s own color, and because there are three different shades of each one, I’ve been able to mark each book in a trilogy with a different shade, but the same color. Um, I hope that sentence is clear. I also make the top level folder that all three books are filed under the color of book one. (If there were four shades of each color, that would have been so much cooler!)

This worked great until last week when I was scanning for my bright blue folder for the Work In Progress (WIP) to file a picture I wanted to refer to and couldn’t find any blue folders at all. I actually had to read the folder names.

It turned out the WIP was in orange in my pictures folder.

Oops! So I fixed the color on all the folders after I saved the picture. Today, it occurred to me that instead of having two separate folders for each book–one under pictures and one under writing–I could just have one. Revelation! Just because Microsoft created separate places for the different file types doesn’t mean I have to follow it. Um, yeah, duh, but it really never dawned on me until now.

This still won’t put all my electronic files in one place because I think the OneNote stuff needs to stay together, but it will cut down on some of the locations. Every little bit helps.