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I Miss My Cargo Space

Tuesday, January 24th, 2012

In December, mere weeks before I had to move to Atlanta, my beloved Explorer decided it needed a lot of expensive repair work done. Since it was a 1998, I opted to buy a new car instead and went with the Edge. I call it my James Bond car. With all the high tech electronics on it (especially for someone who was driving a 1998), it can only be a spymobile. I swear the only thing missing is the hidden missile launcher.

I do like my Edge. A lot. Really. But there are definitely things I miss about the Explorer. And when I was packing up to leave Minnesota, the cargo space was a huge factor. Things I was planning to pack to take along, things like a vacuum cleaner, suddenly didn’t fit and I needed to buy new down here.

For those of you unfamiliar with the story, my day job was relocated from Minneapolis to Atlanta. I chose to relocate with my job, but because of how difficult it is to sell a house in MN in the winter, most of my stuff is still up north and will stay there until I do sell my house and I officially move. Right now, I’m officially a commuter between the two cities.

I did make sure there was room for the important things like my computers. There was no way I was leaving those behind. But my couch? Still in MN.

Some of the lighter things, like my storage containers will get shipped down via UPS or the USPS. Other things that are too bulky or two heavy or not cost effective to ship will have to wait. I even had to leave my blankets and duvet behind because there just wasn’t room in the Edge. As it stood, we were smashed into the vehicle. If only the Explorer could have hung on another few months.

 

The Big Move

Tuesday, January 17th, 2012

I made it to Atlanta, Georgia. I’ve been here two weeks now–one getting setup and one where I actually went to work at my day job.

Things still feel pretty unreal, you know? Like I’m on some kind of extended vacation. My parents are still down here and that adds to the vacation feel. I’m not sure how long it’s going to take before it sinks in that this is more than an extended stay in the south. Maybe once my parents have returned to Minnesota and I’m here alone for a while.

I can say I definitely like the weather here better than Minneapolis, although it’s been kind of bipolar. One day the high will be in the 60s, the next it’s in the 40s. I did wear short sleeves to work four out of five days last week. Short sleeves. In JANUARY! Wild!

The one thing I dislike–okay more than dislike, hate–is the driving. OMG, it’s like commuting through the middle of the Indianapolis 500! People, I have out of state plates, I’m driving in the right hand lane (a lane I rarely, if ever, used in Minneapolis), give me a break and stop tailgating me. I don’t know where I’m going even with GPS. To add to my fun, the commute is about double what I had in Minneapolis. Totally not cool.

On the plus side, most of the people I’ve talked to have been very nice. We’ll disregard the two mechanics I talked to in the elevator at work who pretended I didn’t exist. They’re probably not from around here anyway, right?

In other words, like anywhere you live, there are pluses and minuses in Atlanta. I’ll probably have more to say later, but so far, so good.

 

Missed It

Tuesday, January 10th, 2012

Because of my move from Minneapolis to Atlanta, I haven’t been able to write for the last couple of months. There’s just been too much to do and I didn’t get it all done before I had to leave. At first, it was nice to have the time off from writing since I rarely take a break, but now I’m straining at the tether. I want to write. I want to take time to think about my stories and work out details. Want, but can’t.

The week before I left Minnesota, I opened a file and made an attempt to work, but my thoughts were too scattered and I couldn’t focus enough to get words down. This isn’t unexpected because I dealt with it the same thing the other few times I’ve tried to write while I have been deep in relocation mode. It was disappointing, though.

Now the question is how long will it take to get settled enough in Atlanta to have time again? Not just time to write, but time to deal with all the email and other details that I’ve let slide because I had other, more critical issues on the To Do List. Those decks need to be cleared, too.

What’s really making me crazy is that my characters aren’t talking to me. None of them. I’m used to running scenes to fall asleep. I’m used to running scenes when I get bored. This quiet is weird.

I know it’s stress. My mind is whirling with details and even if I try to concentrate, it doesn’t take long before my thoughts return to what I need to do or what I should be doing. I’m looking forward to calmness, to being able to hear the voices again. I want to spend time with my characters, no matter how frustrating they can be. I wonder how long it will take for my mind to settle in? Today will be my second day reporting to my job in my new home city. It can’t be too much longer now. I hope.

 

Bridesmaids

Sunday, January 8th, 2012

Bridesmaids stars Kristen Wiig as Annie Walker. The story is about a woman who is maid of honor for her best friend’s wedding and ends up in a competition with another bridesmaid.

Annie is one messed up woman. She’s working as a clerk in a jewelry store, a job she’s bad at and has no interest in. She’s sharing an apartment with a British brother and sister. She lets some guy regularly use her for sex and feels crummy about it afterward. (He calls her his number 3 f**k buddy.) She drives a crummy car and her taillights are out.

But things really start to go downhill for her when her best friend gets engaged and asks her to be her maid of honor. The friend also asks a group of other women to be bridesmaids, including a rich woman whose relationship with the bride makes Annie feel threatened. What follows next is a series of events where the two women try to outdo each other.

The movie was supposed to be a comedy and I’d heard good things about it, but I didn’t think most of it was funny at all. I found Annie to be Too Stupid To Live for most of the movie and feel she brought most of her problems on herself. She acts like a complete idiot throughout the entire movie, and when she flips out at the shower–screaming at others, breaking a giant cookie and having it fall on top of her, taking her to the ground, getting messy in the chocolate fountain–the bride kicks her out of the wedding. I don’t blame her.

Annie also meets this really great guy during the course of the movie and after sleeping with him, acts like a complete idiot, hurts him, and alienates him as well

Annie wasn’t the only idiot, though; all the bridesmaids acted bizarrely. More than one time while I watched the movie, I’d mutter who acts like this?

There were a few moments that kept me watching, but in all honesty they were few and far between. At the end, when Annie finally smartened up, things improved greatly, but the movie was already pretty much a loss for me by then.

Not recommended.

 

Atlanta Or Bust

Tuesday, January 3rd, 2012

If everything went as planned, I should be in Atlanta, Georgia as you’re reading this. I’m writing this post 6 days ahead of my move and I’m torn between panic and excitement. Mostly panic.

I’m trying to look on the bright side about moving. The weather should be much, much better in Atlanta than it is in Minneapolis. I’m tired of the cold and snow. I’m tired of wearing hats and scarves and mittens and heavy winter jackets and boots. Although, wow, I saw the cutest pair of winter boots online last night and nearly ordered them–until I remembered that I won’t need them in my new home.

The other plus is that Atlanta is headquarters for my airline, so the odds of having to move again are incredibly low. Also, being our major hub, it will be more convenient for traveling. More non-stop destinations there.

Right now, though, I’m frantic about how much I have left to do and how little time I have to do it in. I’m worried about finding my way around a new city when I still get lost in the city in which I grew up. And I’m especially worried about leaving my parents alone in Minnesota. If they need me, it will take hours to fly home.

Future blog posts will no doubt talk about my adventures in Atlanta. I’m sure I’ll be doing lots of things y’all can laugh about.

 

Merry Christmas!

Sunday, December 25th, 2011

Merry Christmas and thank you to all my readers!

Merry Christmas!

The James Bond Car and Publishing

Thursday, December 22nd, 2011

One final James Bond car post and then I’ll find something else to talk about. I promise.

When I wrote In the Midnight Hour, I gave Ryne (my heroine) keyless entry. In my mind (and in the scene), she opened the doors to her vehicle by pressing the button on her key fob. As I proofread a test print of the book, everything was fine. Then, months later, I got my author copies. My keyless entry had been changed to keys entry.

This bugged me. A lot. It still bugs me.

My guess, and this is only a guess, is that whoever did the proofread of the galleys for the publisher lives in New York City and doesn’t own a car. I can’t see how else that would have been changed. The thing that’s so frustrating is that at the time I didn’t have that feature on my SUV and I had to research to find out that keyless entry was called keyless entry.

Fast forward to my James Bond car. Can you imagine if I wrote a character with a car like this? One that responds to voice commands, automatically hooks my cell phone into the system as soon as I get in the car, and has a remote start? I can’t help but wonder what these features would be changed to. :-)

Let me close by saying I love copy editors and I’ve been lucky to have really good ones on all my books. I’m grateful for all the mistakes they find and fix.

Adventures In Rental Cars

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

I’ve taken to calling my new Edge the James Bond Car because about the only feature missing is the covert missile launcher. The options are cool except there’s one small problem–I’m still having trouble figuring it all out. I am a computer/gadget geek, so I found this rather embarrassing. Until the business trip to Atlanta.

Our entire department needed to attend a meeting in Atlanta last week, and because it was only an overnight trip, three guys rented cars and the rest of us rode along with them. The one I rode with most of the time had a Dodge Durango with the same kind of dashboard screen that I have. He couldn’t figure out most of it either. We both were poking at buttons, trying to figure things out and still couldn’t get what we wanted to happen.

But the best part was on Wednesday night. The driver of the Durango had come in the day before so this was day (and night) 2 for him with the SUV. The entire group drove about 45 minutes from our hotel for dinner. There were three of us in the Durango as we left to return to the hotel.

The driver makes a comment, "There’s a police car behind us."

We drive a little farther and he says, "We’re being pulled over."

We’re all confused since he wasn’t speeding or weaving or anything else that would warrant being pulled over. The officer comes up to the car and says, "Sir, would you turn on your headlights."

Huh? Aren’t they on? Um, no, they weren’t. The driver thought the lights were on auto, but they’d been turned off, and because of how bright the screens on the dashboard were, no one realized the headlights were off. We didn’t get a ticket, but the driver swore us to secrecy–and then he ran around the office the next day telling everyone the story.

Technology is generally awesome, but sometimes it makes life more complicated.

 

The Unexpected New Car

Thursday, December 15th, 2011

If you follow me on Twitter, you know I bought a new (to me) car last week. I didn’t want a new car– Okay, let me rephrase. I didn’t want to have the car payments that go with a new vehicle. If someone was handing out free cars, that would be a different story.

Anyway, I didn’t plan on buying a new car this year, especially when I move to Atlanta just after the first of the year, but my beloved Explorer was having issues. It was a 1998 and it needed transmission work and a new muffler/tailpipe assembly. There was no way I could justify putting that kind of money into a 14-year-old car. I’d known this day was coming and I’d already made my decision on what the replacement would be, but it was still a "no, not now" moment.

I loved my Explorer to bits, but I decided to go with the Edge as a replacement instead. It’s a crossover vehicle–part SUV, part car–and I liked the look. The price tag? Not so enamored, but sadly the prices on all cars have gone ridiculously high since I last bought one.

I’d checked out used Edges online, found one I really liked, and took it for a test drive last Thursday. I didn’t plan to take it home that night, but since the Explorer I was trading in could die at any moment thanks to the transmission issue, I wasn’t left with much choice.

My New Edge

Beautiful, isn’t it? (Please ignore the mess in the garage.) I’m trying to get used to it. My 1998 did not have any of the fancy stuff in it that this car does. It’s like going from a World War I biplane to flying the space shuttle. I actually had to read the instruction book and my motto has always been: If all else fails, read the directions. Sadly, I bet I’ll only use a fraction of the car’s features because I’ll forget they’re there or forget how to turn them on.

Some of what I’m learning. No keys needed. I just have a remote clicky things. I need it with me, but I just keep it in my jacket pocket and press the dashboard button to start.

My cell phone is hooked into the car via blue tooth and I can verbally tell my car to call someone without having to touch anything. I’m not much of a phone person and I hate people who yap on their cells while driving, but this could come in handy at times.

However, I won’t need to call anyone for directions on how to get somewhere. Not anymore. The car has GPS built in! This is the feature I really wanted because I don’t know the city of Atlanta or it’s suburbs at all and I’ll need all the help I can get to find my way around.

It’s all cool, but TBH, I miss my old Explorer. I recognized the sounds it made, I knew where to look and how to handle it. I do like the Edge, though, and while the car was used, it was still a 2011 and has a ton of bells and whistles on it. More than I needed, but I took what was on the vehicle.

 

The Atlanta Trip

Thursday, December 8th, 2011

I was down in Atlanta last week to look for somewhere to live. Despite working for an airline, we drove down because Thanksgiving had the flights packed. Over the course of the week, there were lots of events that I thought would make entertaining blog posts. Unfortunately, I forgot most of them by the time I got home.

There are some things, though, that are stuck in my mind:

It gets dark early now. We were in Illinois and there were no lights on the sides of the freeway. It was drizzling. I was going 70, which was the speed limit. I got passed. Constantly. By cars doing 80-85 mph. There was one guy driving so fast, he had to doing 90. In the dark. So FYI, Illinois, Indiana, Missouri and Michigan drivers go far too fast. I wasn’t even a little surprised when we came across an accident in the center median involving 4 vehicles.

And in the dark, somewhere in Illinois, I had to slam on the brakes. I was lucky no one was tailgating me at that time. As I zipped down the freeway, my headlights picked up an animal in the middle of the two lanes. I don’t know if it was a dog or a coyote, but I nearly hit it. That was major scary.

My impressions of Atlanta. I liked it. They drive like maniacs there, too. Seriously. I didn’t think it was possible to get a more stressful commute than I have in Minneapolis. I was wrong. I might have to check into a van pool to get to and from work. Although if I had a clue where I was going, it might not have been so bad.

The weather was great! Okay, so the people in Atlanta were complaining about how cold it was, but I’d been wearing my winter jacket and hat in Minneapolis. In ATL, I was wearing my spring jacket and I was comfortable. I actually hated the idea of going home because I didn’t want to go back to the cold (and it snowed the day after I got home). The weather in MN got even worse since then. On Tuesday, it was 15 degrees in MN at 5am. It was 62 in ATL. I’m thinking Mother Nature is trying to make me eager to move.

The trip home also had a few moments. Like the rest area we stopped at in northern Georgia where I almost got a cat. The two workers who clean up around the place found an abandoned house cat who was as friendly and sweet as could be. First thing in the door, they asked me if I wanted a cat. I thought about it while I washed my hands and thought, well, why not? Then I found out the cat was pregnant and I was like I can’t deal with that on top of all else I have.

After dark, again in Illinois, I caught movement in the corner of my headlights. A deer was on the edge of right-hand lane. All I could do was think: Please, don’t let her run out in front of me. Luckily, she didn’t, but that was enough to encourage me to stop for the night. In the hotel room, the radar showed freezing rain ahead of us so stopping was definitely the right choice.

The next day, in Wisconsin, we stop for gas. My dad notices my tailpipe is broken. We stop at a Ford dealership at the next exit and they took it off. The mechanics were awesome! They didn’t even charge us for doing that, but the rest of the trip home was a little on the loud side. ;-)

And of course, we hit Minneapolis in rush hour. But it was good to be home. When I saw the snow coming down on Saturday, I reconsidered that statement.